The Back-to-School Guide Nobody Hands You When You Have an IEP on File
Nine sections of what actually helps in September, plus four printables you can hand straight to the school.
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50 Things I Wish I'd Known Sooner
A free letter for moms of kids with disabilities — IEPs, marriage, money, grief, and grace.
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IEP Meeting Prep Kit
Fill-in worksheet, 12 must-ask questions, and 'say this not that' scripts.
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First 30 Days Survival Binder
The exact calls to make, scripts to say, and forms to fill — week by week.
Things we wish someone told us
Real, specific tips from parents who've been through it — not generic advice.
You can get a free advocate through FCSN.
The Federation for Children with Special Needs will send a trained advocate to your IEP meeting — at no cost. You don't have to do this alone.
FCSNYou can record IEP meetings in Massachusetts.
State law allows you to audio-record IEP meetings with 5 business days' written notice to the school. You don't need their permission — just notification.
You can request an Independent Educational Evaluation at the district's expense.
If you disagree with the school's evaluation, you have the right to request an IEE paid for by the district. The school must either agree or file for a hearing.
Massachusetts has a 45-day deadline for evaluations.
Once you give written consent, the school has 45 school working days to complete the evaluation. If they miss it, document everything — it strengthens your case.
You can file with the BSEA if the school won't comply.
The Bureau of Special Education Appeals handles disputes between families and schools. Filing is free, and you don't need a lawyer to do it.
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Sibling Resources
Your other kids are watching, adapting, and carrying more than they say. These are for them.
Sibshops
ProgramsPeer support programs designed specifically for siblings of kids with special needs. Fun, not therapy.
The Sibling Support Project
NationalBooks, activities, and guides to help siblings process big feelings about their brother or sister's disability.
Books for Siblings
ReadingAge-appropriate reads like 'Views from Our Shoes' and 'My Brother Charlie' that help siblings feel seen.
NAMI MA — Family Programs
FreeFree support groups for the whole family, including sibling-specific resources and referrals.
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Coming soonPractical tools you can use right away. Download, print, and keep handy.
Questions to Ask a New Therapist
15 essential questions to help you find the right fit for your child.
IEP Meeting Prep Checklist
Walk into your next IEP meeting organized and confident.
Back-to-School Transition Guide
Tips to ease the transition for kids who need extra support.
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