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    Things we wish someone told us

    Real, specific tips from parents who've been through it — not generic advice.

    You can get a free advocate through FCSN.

    The Federation for Children with Special Needs will send a trained advocate to your IEP meeting — at no cost. You don't have to do this alone.

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    You can record IEP meetings in Massachusetts.

    State law allows you to audio-record IEP meetings with 5 business days' written notice to the school. You don't need their permission — just notification.

    You can request an Independent Educational Evaluation at the district's expense.

    If you disagree with the school's evaluation, you have the right to request an IEE paid for by the district. The school must either agree or file for a hearing.

    Massachusetts has a 45-day deadline for evaluations.

    Once you give written consent, the school has 45 school working days to complete the evaluation. If they miss it, document everything — it strengthens your case.

    You can file with the BSEA if the school won't comply.

    The Bureau of Special Education Appeals handles disputes between families and schools. Filing is free, and you don't need a lawyer to do it.

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